Friendships

As we go through life we kind of "collect" people along the way.  It's important that we form friendships with other be it that of the same sex or the opposite sex.  We also will have different types of friends and different levels of friendships too.  It's also true what they say in that you can count your true friends on one hand.  Not everyone is going to be your closest friend.  Most people have a few very close friends and then a wider circle of more casual friends and then an outer circle of acquaintances. It's also a rare and special thing these days  for adults to to still have friends from their school days.  

As we go through the ebbs and flows of life and we hit on different phases of our lives, so too can our friendships change,  Sometimes we may not feel so close to certain people, but because of the circumstances at the time we may be closer to other people.  This is all perfectly fine.  People are in our lives for reasons and sometimes seasons too.  Have you ever had that friend whereby you've been close to for a few years and then all of a sudden there's nothing, is your job done in their lives? or has their job been completed in yours?  It happens!  

In the same way that we have Soul connections in relationships, so too do we have Soul connections in friendships too.  This is why certain people seem to be around us at certain times.  On that rare occasion will we meet say a true "Soul Sister or Brother"

It's also through out friendships that we meet other people too.  How many times do you hear people say "oh we met through mutual friends".  Happens a lot.  Be it other friendships or relationships.  So it's true the wider your social circle the more people you stand a chance of meeting.  But it's still important to remember you can't be close to everyone!

Friendships just like relationships a two way thing, not just the effort of one person. Just like relationships too they need nurturing, with communication and time and give and take to maintain them.  With the busy lives that people lead these days it's easy for our friendships to slip.  

As with relationships it's important that we take the hint when someone doesn't want to invest their time in us in the same way we would like to invest our time in them.  May be they are always busy when you request to see them.  Have you had this scenario with someone  You:  "It'd  be great to catch up over a coffee at some point"  Them: "I'm really busy, another time perhaps".  It's always worth asking a few times, if you repeated get caught with that brick wall, then it's time to take the hint.  Or perhaps it's always you that sends that text asking them how they are and they never reach out to you first.  That's also when it's time to reassess the situation too.

In terms of forming new friendships that can be difficult these days, particularly as peoples lives are so busy, sometimes it's just not on someones radar to add to their circle of friends.  However, I've always found that giving someone a compliment can be a really great ice breaker and have them warm towards you.  "oh I really like that scarf you're wearing.  The colour really suits you!" or "That hair colour looks great on you, which shade is it?"


How can a Psychic Reading help with my Friendships?

Lots of people take a look at their love relationships with a Psychic Reading, but have you every thought of consulting a Psychic to take a look at your friends.  May you want to know if any new friends are going to come your way or may be you've met someone you think is a friend and you just want to check them out; see if they are real or not?  Or may be you want to look at why a friend is being distant with you or even you've had a fall out with someone you considered to be a really good friend and you want to know if you are going to sort things out!  All of these things can be looked at within a Psychic Reading.  So why not book yours today to check out your friendships.  A full range of my services can be found here 



I also stumbled across this really good article that explains what a good friendship should look like.  Click the button below to have a read.

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11 Signs of a True Friendship