As we go through life we kind of "collect" people along the way. It's important that we form friendships with other be it that of the same sex or the opposite sex. We also will have different types of friends and different levels of friendships too. It's also true what they say in that you can count your true friends on one hand. Not everyone is going to be your closest friend. Most people have a few very close friends and then a wider circle of more casual friends and then an outer circle of acquaintances. It's also a rare and special thing these days for adults to to still have friends from their school days.
As we go through the ebbs and flows of life and we hit on different phases of our lives, so too can our friendships change, Sometimes we may not feel so close to certain people, but because of the circumstances at the time we may be closer to other people. This is all perfectly fine. People are in our lives for reasons and sometimes seasons too. Have you ever had that friend whereby you've been close to for a few years and then all of a sudden there's nothing, is your job done in their lives? or has their job been completed in yours? It happens!
In the same way that we have Soul connections in relationships, so too do we have Soul connections in friendships too. This is why certain people seem to be around us at certain times. On that rare occasion will we meet say a true "Soul Sister or Brother"
It's also through out friendships that we meet other people too. How many times do you hear people say "oh we met through mutual friends". Happens a lot. Be it other friendships or relationships. So it's true the wider your social circle the more people you stand a chance of meeting. But it's still important to remember you can't be close to everyone!
Friendships just like relationships a two way thing, not just the effort of one person. Just like relationships too they need nurturing, with communication and time and give and take to maintain them. With the busy lives that people lead these days it's easy for our friendships to slip.
As with relationships it's important that we take the hint when someone doesn't want to invest their time in us in the same way we would like to invest our time in them. May be they are always busy when you request to see them. Have you had this scenario with someone You: "It'd be great to catch up over a coffee at some point" Them: "I'm really busy, another time perhaps". It's always worth asking a few times, if you repeated get caught with that brick wall, then it's time to take the hint. Or perhaps it's always you that sends that text asking them how they are and they never reach out to you first. That's also when it's time to reassess the situation too.
In terms of forming new friendships that can be difficult these days, particularly as peoples lives are so busy, sometimes it's just not on someones radar to add to their circle of friends. However, I've always found that giving someone a compliment can be a really great ice breaker and have them warm towards you. "oh I really like that scarf you're wearing. The colour really suits you!" or "That hair colour looks great on you, which shade is it?"
How can a Psychic Reading help with my Friendships?
Lots of people take a look at their love relationships with a Psychic Reading, but have you every thought of consulting a Psychic to take a look at your friends. May you want to know if any new friends are going to come your way or may be you've met someone you think is a friend and you just want to check them out; see if they are real or not? Or may be you want to look at why a friend is being distant with you or even you've had a fall out with someone you considered to be a really good friend and you want to know if you are going to sort things out! All of these things can be looked at within a Psychic Reading. So why not book yours today to check out your friendships. A full range of my services can be found here
I also stumbled across this really good article that explains what a good friendship should look like. Click the button below to have a read.
It's got to be said, long term relationships can become mundane and you can loose that spark that once fuelled the passion and that feeling of being totally in love. It's true we do have to work at getting that back at times and sometimes we get caught up in the every day hum drum of life and we wonder where it's gone. Lets face it paying bills and doing the dishes isn't exactly romantic now is it.
May be this is how you are feeling right now? May be you're wondering if the spark will ever reignite for you or if it's been lost forever? May be there's a resason why you've lost the spark and you haven't been caught up in life, but rather you've had to work through something where you've had to have a lot of understanding and forgiveness?
Sometimes it doesn't take much, just a little extra effort or thought.. Here are some tips that can give you some ideas on how to get that spark back into relationship
If you are still struggling with your spark and you wonder if you can ever regain the passion that once was, why not book a Psychic Reading to see what lies ahead for you and whether this relationship really can go the distance. Click here for the full range of services on offer.
Kung Hei Fat Choy
2018 is the year of the Dog!
Find out here if you are a Dog in Chinese Astrology and what's in store for you for 2018.
Another chance to get your 2018 Psychic Reading. Click here to view the full range
How are you feeling about it being Valentines Day today? Did your loved one get you that card or gift? Did they even remember? Did you receive a card anonymously? So do you know who that secret admirer is or did it take you by complete surprise?
Today is a great day to book a Psychic Reading! Find out more about that secret admirer, or can you relationship really survive now that they forgot, or where exactly is your relationship heading? Book in with myself to find out.......
I found an article on How to Let go of Someone Who has Stopped Loving you the other day and I thought it may help someone out there.
Certainly I think this is something we all go through at certain points in our lives and we need to recognise the signs of when someone has stopped loving us or is not longer interested in us, so we stop putting in the effort to the one sided relationships and we focus on loving ourselves again until we find someone else worthy of our love
May you have been through this experience lately and have decided to move on from someone who wasn't giving back to you. Where do you really do from here? What does the future hold for you in terms of your love life? Is there anyone new coming in for you and when? Could a Psychic Reading give you a new focus, something to look forward to? Light at the end of the tunnel may be? If so, why not book a reading today to find out what or who is in store for you!
One question I'm asked a lot on my office is "how often should I have a Psychic Reading?"
My response is always "you will generally just know when you want another reading"
In terms of how long my clients leave between readings is purely individual. Some Clients have a 60 minute Reading every January or February to see what the year holds for them and I know to expect the following January or February. So they are obviously yearly clients!.
Then I have Clients that will come for their readings every 3,4 or 6 months and they are religious at doing this. They get their up indepth insight as to what the months lie ahead for them and this is them just generally being nosey.
Some Clients I will only ever hear from when they have issues in their life and I'll hear from them quite reguarly, say monthly, whilst they work through whatever is on their mind
Then there' s the other set of Clients that have one reading randomly as and when. They may even leave 2, 3 or 4 years between their readings, Never feeling the urge to have another until that moment
So it really does depend on the individual as to when they have their readings and how long they choose to leave between readings.
However, how often do I need a psychic reading? is the most asked question in my office!
I've seen many brokenhearted clients in my office since the turn of 2018. All have had relationships that have ended since the start of the New Year. All it would seem has come completely out of the blue to them,. Also all the influences look as though they are permanent endings too.
Why is it as soon as the New Year turns everyone decides it's time to break up with their partners? Were the issues not there in November or June perhaps? Why as soon as the New Year starts does everyone have the confidence to get suddenly start over again? It would seem that the New Year gives fresh outlook to people and all of a sudden the gut to change what's been bugging them all year round. It's bizarre though to think that the turn of a New Year can really do that people.
With my brokenhearted clients I've been trying to help them focus on what's ahead of them rather than what's now behind them as situations seems pretty definite.
I've got 3 Tarot Cards here that I would expect to see in a spread of cards that indicate new horizons where love is concerned.
The Ace of Cups showing an intense new love, sometimes unavoidable. The 2 of Cups showing a nice new love connection and sometimes that face to face meet up and the 10 of cups that shows a total mutual feeling of overflowing love between two people.
May be you've been in a similar scenario. Has your Partner broken up with you since the New Year started or may be you've made the decision to end the relationship yourself. Why not book a reading today to find out what new love lies ahead for you in 2018?