As we go through life we kind of "collect" people along the way. It's important that we form friendships with other be it that of the same sex or the opposite sex. We also will have different types of friends and different levels of friendships too. It's also true what they say in that you can count your true friends on one hand. Not everyone is going to be your closest friend. Most people have a few very close friends and then a wider circle of more casual friends and then an outer circle of acquaintances. It's also a rare and special thing these days for adults to to still have friends from their school days.
As we go through the ebbs and flows of life and we hit on different phases of our lives, so too can our friendships change, Sometimes we may not feel so close to certain people, but because of the circumstances at the time we may be closer to other people. This is all perfectly fine. People are in our lives for reasons and sometimes seasons too. Have you ever had that friend whereby you've been close to for a few years and then all of a sudden there's nothing, is your job done in their lives? or has their job been completed in yours? It happens!
In the same way that we have Soul connections in relationships, so too do we have Soul connections in friendships too. This is why certain people seem to be around us at certain times. On that rare occasion will we meet say a true "Soul Sister or Brother"
It's also through out friendships that we meet other people too. How many times do you hear people say "oh we met through mutual friends". Happens a lot. Be it other friendships or relationships. So it's true the wider your social circle the more people you stand a chance of meeting. But it's still important to remember you can't be close to everyone!
Friendships just like relationships a two way thing, not just the effort of one person. Just like relationships too they need nurturing, with communication and time and give and take to maintain them. With the busy lives that people lead these days it's easy for our friendships to slip.
As with relationships it's important that we take the hint when someone doesn't want to invest their time in us in the same way we would like to invest our time in them. May be they are always busy when you request to see them. Have you had this scenario with someone You: "It'd be great to catch up over a coffee at some point" Them: "I'm really busy, another time perhaps". It's always worth asking a few times, if you repeated get caught with that brick wall, then it's time to take the hint. Or perhaps it's always you that sends that text asking them how they are and they never reach out to you first. That's also when it's time to reassess the situation too.
In terms of forming new friendships that can be difficult these days, particularly as peoples lives are so busy, sometimes it's just not on someones radar to add to their circle of friends. However, I've always found that giving someone a compliment can be a really great ice breaker and have them warm towards you. "oh I really like that scarf you're wearing. The colour really suits you!" or "That hair colour looks great on you, which shade is it?"
How can a Psychic Reading help with my Friendships?
Lots of people take a look at their love relationships with a Psychic Reading, but have you every thought of consulting a Psychic to take a look at your friends. May you want to know if any new friends are going to come your way or may be you've met someone you think is a friend and you just want to check them out; see if they are real or not? Or may be you want to look at why a friend is being distant with you or even you've had a fall out with someone you considered to be a really good friend and you want to know if you are going to sort things out! All of these things can be looked at within a Psychic Reading. So why not book yours today to check out your friendships. A full range of my services can be found here
I also stumbled across this really good article that explains what a good friendship should look like. Click the button below to have a read.
When a Client chooses a Psychic it goes without saying really that the Psychic needs to be able to demonstrate excellent Psychic ability. Be able to tune into the Client’s situation and reasons for wanting a reading at that time. Be able to demonstrate with confidence that they have a true gift. Also have the ability also to set plausible influences for the future too.
Being able to tune to the past and present gives the Client confidence that the future influences are plausible and on point.
If the Psychic uses tools, be it traditional tools such as Tarot Cards, Crystal Ball or Runes Stone or even the lesser traditional tools such as Ribbons or Dice even, they need to be able to show that they are confident with those tools and they know their craft inside out and back to front.
What I want to look at most in this blog is the other qualities that a Psychic really needs to be successful within the Psychic Industry; what qualities do they need to possess for them to be able to stand out in an Industry where more and more people are becoming Psychic Readers.
When having a reading of course, you want your Reader to lead the reading to be able to tell you about you and your life. However, it’s important that your Reader is able to listen to you when you want to speak. The best readings aren’t all a one way street. The Reader needs to give the Client time to vocalise and they need to be able to listen to what the Client is saying. Within the Reading a Client can off load a lot of things that are on their mind as they can’t always talk to those people around them, or indeed they may not have anyone to talk to. So the ability for a Reader to be able to listen is vital
A Reader really needs to be able to empathise with their Client. They need to be able to truly understand that Clients situation and to really be able to able to get to grips with what the Client is hoping to achieve from their Reading. The ability to really be on the same page as the Client is necessary to be able to set the right options for the Client.
A Reader needs to be able to show their Client compassion. They need to care for their Client and demonstrate that they are a warm, friendly person. It wouldn’t matter how good someone’s Psychic ability was, if they are not a friendly person then Client’s wouldn’t want to have a reading with them at all, let alone want to return to them time after time. A Client needs to feel they have a friend in their Reader. Someone that they can turn to whenever they need to talk to someone.
When a Client has a reading they quite often have a million and one things on their mind and they can be feel quite overwhelmed with their issues. If a Psychic is not calm themselves then they lose the ability to listen and give their complete attention to the client. Therefore, it is never a good idea for a Psychic Reader to work if they are stressed out with their own issues. Also a Reading is about the Client, not the Psychic!
The idea of a Psychic Reading is to map out the options available to the Client. So the ability to be able to find the positives in what can seem to the Client to be able a negative situation is empowering to the Client. It’s important that the Reader doesn’t tell them what to do, but maps out the options to show the Client that there is light at the end of their seemingly dark tunnel. The ability to empower to the Client gives them the lift that they need to become determined to take the power back in their situation.
Clients consult Psychic’s for many different reasons and it’s important that they feel they aren’t being judged or criticised in any way . For example, the Client may be in a relationship with 5 different people. It isn’t the job of the Psychic to then tell the Client they must reduce it down to 1 person or to quote the moral high ground about how to conduct themselves in any way shape or form. If a Client feels judged in, it’s one sure way for them never to return to a Psychic regardless how well they tune in.
As I said in the last section a Client seeks a Psychic Reading for all kinds of reasons. The ability for a Reader to be open minded is absolutely necessary. If a Reader has been working in the industry for long enough chances are they’ve heard it all along the way anyway. Sometimes though Clients open up to their Readers about all kinds of personal things, even details of their intimate lives! Therefore, the Reader has to keep an open mind that everyone is different, everyone wants to divulge different things about themselves and everyone has a reading for different reasons.
The Reading session is between the Reader and the Client only. Should the Client leave the reading and want to share the details with their friends or their family then that is up to them, it’s their Reading and they paid for it. However, it is not up to the Reader to go and share the session with their own friends or indeed other clients. Could you imagine how unprofessional it would sound if a Reader said to their next Client “oh my last Client was having an affair with John from work and they both work for xyz company…..” How awful would that be? It is often the case that noone else knows that Client has had a reading and they wouldn’t wish for other people to know either.
When seeking a Psychic Reader clients often don’t think about all the other things that make up a good Psychic. However, the most successful Readers will have all of these qualities as major strengths. Psychic ability without all these softer skills doesn’t really work.
I’m quite often asked “is everyone Psychic?” “can anyone do it?” and I find myself saying “Yes to a point!”.
The reason for this is because everyone is born with a “gut feeling” and this is known as our “intuition” Our intuition is that feeling that tells us if something is right or wrong or if we like or dislike something or even someone. Often we are taught to make decisions with logic and we end up ignoring our gut feeling and it is then when we get all confused and often end up on the wrong track.. Hence the term “follow your gut feeling you’ll never go wrong!” It’s because when we use our gut feeling to make a decision we can’t always back it up with evidence, whereas we can when we use our heads to make a decision and quite often we are asked for evidence as to why we have made certain decisions or think a certain way. It simply isn’t acceptable to say “just because I feel it…..”
So we have now ascertained that most people’s intuitions have become somewhat lazy as they are overruled by our heads and of course good old logic. However, the psychic sensing and feelings start with our very own intuition and some people’s intuitions are more finely tuned naturally. It is often the more sensitive of people that have the naturally fined tuned intuitions as they are more likely to “feel” and “sense”..
CAN IT BE TAUGHT?
I’m also quite often asked “...but if it’s a gift surely it’s something you are born with an therefore, cannot be taught?” Wrong! This is because we can be taught to fine tune intuition, we can be taught to go with what we feel even if it doesn’t make any sense to us at the time. We can be taught to become more aware of how we feel. So yes, everyone is Psychic.
Whilst it is true that some people will be better at it than others, like everything in life, most people with perseverance can be taught Psychic feeling. It is perhaps the other Psychic senses, of seeing, hearing, feeling and smelling that they may or may not attain in their lifetime. It is always that Psychic feeling that underpins the whole Psychic Awareness and that’s how developing Psychic skills start.
I like to use the analogy of Singing to help people understand the Psychic gift.. Singing is a gift that some people have to varying degrees. Some people can open their mouths to sing and sing pitch perfect without any training whatsoever. Some people will be able to sing beautifully with a bit of training and guidance and some people may only just make a nursery rhyme sound in tune.
The Psychic feeling is absolutely no different! The only difference is as with singing is the levels that you reach or even want to reach and those levels that are within your capabilities.
May be you want to develop your own skills to see what level of Psychic Awareness you can achieve?. Book a Psychic Reading today and I can answer all your questions on Psychic Development.
It's got to be said, long term relationships can become mundane and you can loose that spark that once fuelled the passion and that feeling of being totally in love. It's true we do have to work at getting that back at times and sometimes we get caught up in the every day hum drum of life and we wonder where it's gone. Lets face it paying bills and doing the dishes isn't exactly romantic now is it.
May be this is how you are feeling right now? May be you're wondering if the spark will ever reignite for you or if it's been lost forever? May be there's a resason why you've lost the spark and you haven't been caught up in life, but rather you've had to work through something where you've had to have a lot of understanding and forgiveness?
Sometimes it doesn't take much, just a little extra effort or thought.. Here are some tips that can give you some ideas on how to get that spark back into relationship
If you are still struggling with your spark and you wonder if you can ever regain the passion that once was, why not book a Psychic Reading to see what lies ahead for you and whether this relationship really can go the distance. Click here for the full range of services on offer.
I think it is true about opposites attracting. I do feel that opposites really compliment each other. Each party can then bring something different to the partnership with each person displaying strengths and weaknesses that make up great couples.
I found an interesting article on Astrological Opposites and thought I'd share it.
What do you think? Do you think that people have to be the same type of person to be compatible or do you think that opposites really do compliment each other in a positive way?
I do feel that it adds to the dynamics of the partnership when both parties are different.
Today we coming into the sign of Pisces until 20th March when Aries starts.
Click here to see what 2018 holds for Pisceans.
Did you know that today is the "Random Act of Kindness Day"?
Celebrated on February 17th, National Random Acts of Kindness Day has grown in popularity each year. It is celebrated by individuals, and groups nationwide, to encourage acts of kindness.
What is a random act of kindness?
A selfless act performed by a person or persons wishing to either assist or cheer up an individual... There will generally be no reason other than to make people smile, or be happier.
Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you.
What random act of kindness have you undertaken today or may be someone has given you a random act of kindness and taken you quite by surprise. How did it make you feel to either give or receive? Let me know......
Happy Random Act of Kindness Day 2018
Kung Hei Fat Choy
2018 is the year of the Dog!
Find out here if you are a Dog in Chinese Astrology and what's in store for you for 2018.
Another chance to get your 2018 Psychic Reading. Click here to view the full range
How are you feeling about it being Valentines Day today? Did your loved one get you that card or gift? Did they even remember? Did you receive a card anonymously? So do you know who that secret admirer is or did it take you by complete surprise?
Today is a great day to book a Psychic Reading! Find out more about that secret admirer, or can you relationship really survive now that they forgot, or where exactly is your relationship heading? Book in with myself to find out.......
Did you Know?
Pancake Day, or Shrove Tuesday, is the traditional feast day before the start of Lent on Ash Wednesday. Lent which is the 40 days leading up to Easter. It was traditionally a time of fasting and on Shrove Tuesday, Saxon Christians went to confession and were “shriven” (absolved from their sins).
Shrove Tuesday is also known as Fat Tuesday, or Mardi Gras, and features large festivals and celebrations around the world.
I found an article on How to Let go of Someone Who has Stopped Loving you the other day and I thought it may help someone out there.
Certainly I think this is something we all go through at certain points in our lives and we need to recognise the signs of when someone has stopped loving us or is not longer interested in us, so we stop putting in the effort to the one sided relationships and we focus on loving ourselves again until we find someone else worthy of our love
May you have been through this experience lately and have decided to move on from someone who wasn't giving back to you. Where do you really do from here? What does the future hold for you in terms of your love life? Is there anyone new coming in for you and when? Could a Psychic Reading give you a new focus, something to look forward to? Light at the end of the tunnel may be? If so, why not book a reading today to find out what or who is in store for you!
February is of course the second month of the year and it's also the shortest month of the year too with only 28 days in it. Every four years we have a leap year and that makes it 29 days.
There are so many important dates that arise in February that we don't really think about, which are as follows:
Lots of key events happening around the middle of the month and of course, the children around this time will be on Half Term holidays here in England.
We also say Happy Birthday to some well known celebrities also in February and these are:
The birthstone for February is Amethyst, a beautiful purple crystal. Amethyst is used for anything sleep related, including insomnia. It is also used for Chakra balancing and is particularly good for the Crown Chakra on top of the head.
Amethyst is also the gemstone for Ontario in Canada.
The Astrological Star Signs for February isAquarius and Pisces with the Pisces starting from 19th February 2018
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If you've not had your Psychic Reading for February as of yet, why not book one today to see what February has in store for you?